IDEAL PARENTS

Happiness is the key to a child can receive the stimulation that we give to the optimum. Therefore, we should be able to make our children happy, so he could receive the optimal stimulation. We must meet the physical needs of children, such as providing nutritious food and such psychic hugs, kisses, and praise. Amid the busy work we must also be able to make time for our children. This time - should be qualified so although a little but highly optimized for the child because the child can get attention and communicate with us with a comfortable and happy. Being a listener for our children when communicating to make children feel valued, understood, understood and not underestimated. Train a child by giving the freedom to choose or make decisions while still giving directions what to do and what the consequences will be accepted on a choice or deci

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Develop interests and talents of our children according to their potential we should not force the child in accordance with our expectations. We must accept our children with all its pros and cons and do not compare our children with the other children as this can cause children to become self-conscious that they have lost confidence. Treat equally between boys and girls so that they are able to explore the area - the extent.

As parents we must be consistent in applying discipline. Husband and wife must be compact not to because it instead bersebarangan dangerous for children. Children will be confused. For example, the father forbids eating, standing, but the mother allowed to eat while standing. Children learn from what he saw from his parents, so we must keep our attitude to always be positive in actions and words.