Giving The Right Punishment

Often we feel very annoyed with our children because of his attitude we think it is naughty. We often provide punishment for the naughty. Often the punishment we give to our children with no obvious, the mean is child knows what mistakes he had done, so the next day or the next time he'll do it again. Such punishment is not effective because it makes us more irritable and tired and our children later Himself will repeat the same mistakes.Here are tips that we can gunaktan for punishment that we give to children - our daughters and sons benefit to us - our daughter. Tips are: 1. Specific     Make sure the child - the child understands the wrong deeds. For example "I do not like you go up on the table" 2. Responsive     We help children - our children understand the consequences of their actions 3. Concrete     Give an example to the children - our children exactly how to fix mistakes 4. Interactive     Give opportunity to the children - our children to improve themselves and admit that as a goodBy applying these tips we're going to be easy in dealing with our children. Our children will also understand his mistakes and understand how to fix it.