Thursday, October 14, 2010

MESSAGE CLEAR

"You are indeed correct - really bad boy"
"Papa is very proud of this day to you, because today you're so good boy"
The above two sentences we often listen to or even often we say it. Though the sentence is very confusing for our children. Confusing because the child does not know what is meant by mischievous or both parents. This brings the impact when the children perform a confused child the same mistakes their parents or the teacher he said naughty, but not on what to say naughty. So it's quite possible  that the child will make the same mistake next time. Naughty words, well is an abstract word, while the child's brain or the brain we can not accept an abstract word. Therefore when we say something either in the form of reprimand or praise to our children should convey clearly. For example, "Papa is very angry with the action who cry when you ask at the store had bought a toy." "Papa is very proud to you because you want to do your homework before playing". Messages that clearly make the child understand his mistake that makes a parent or teacher angry or act which makes proud parents and teachers. So when you raise our kids something to present it as clearly as possible. Hopefully helpful

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