Most great people to realize success in one's life, and it
in professional or personal, need social skills. A person who
success, as you know, in general they are aware of themselves and know
how to understand and work effectively with others. Skills
socialize needed in friendship, school life, community of life and ultimately in life work.
Recent These experts have said that our children have social skills decline especially in the era of high technology as it is now. Role technology on the lives of our children so much and this causes corresponding decrease in social interaction.
success, as you know, in general they are aware of themselves and know
how to understand and work effectively with others. Skills
socialize needed in friendship, school life, community of life and ultimately in life work.
Recent These experts have said that our children have social skills decline especially in the era of high technology as it is now. Role technology on the lives of our children so much and this causes corresponding decrease in social interaction.
So, how to prepare and teach our children social skills they need in life. Here there are 4 tips you can begin to do:
1. Children learn by seeing what you are doing, not by what you say. This method is very effective. You can use every opportunity with you try to understand others, as an example. You can do with the demonstration, what you think about other people's feelings, how you try to put yourself in the position of others, to understand more well how the world sees from a different perspective, how do you becarefully think about what you say to someone and try to anticipate how they will react to speech you.
2. Explain to your children, how and why you do that as described
above. Ask your child how they can do it better.
above. Ask your child how they can do it better.
3. When your child is arguing with another child, take some time to discuss them together. Stand in a position opposite to help your child to see the problem from the point of view different. That way they can reflect upon his actions.
4. Help your child to bring myself to express what they like or dislike the other children, discuss with them how they felt if they insist. When children
you are ready, anjurkanlah them to come back and discuss issues
was with her friend and settle the tension between them.
you are ready, anjurkanlah them to come back and discuss issues
was with her friend and settle the tension between them.
5. Give praise or rewards for your child when they do true. Children learn more effectively from the praise and appreciation, compared with the punishment and reproach.
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