The issue strikes a school or school phobia should not be a serious problem, unless there are serious health problems. But if allowed to drag on can really be a serious problem. All depends on the handling done by parents. The longer children are not allowed to attend school and do not get any treatment, the longer the problem it will be finished. However, the sooner treated, the problem will usually gradually recovered in about 1 or 2 weeks.
1. Stay stressed the importance of schools with required him to stay in school every day.
1. Stay stressed the importance of schools with required him to stay in school every day.
Fear that he will naturally be solved by face it directly. The longer allowed to not attend school, will be more difficult to restore it back to school, even more isering and complaints will increase. In addition, children will be more missed lessons, and more difficult to adjust to his friends.
2. Trying to firm and consistent when responding to complaints, whining, or even rajukan children who do not want school.
If when the children wake up safe and sound, active and with a good breakfast, but when going to school, it suddenly strikes should parents do not serve the child's attitude of negotiating and still take her to school. Avoid the attitude promises a gift if the child would go to school, because this will be a pattern of bad habits. Children will not have their own awareness of school and why she should get used to manipulate parents and environment. Children learned how a sniper tactics or strategy in an effort to desire accomplished.
3. Consult a health problem child to the doctor.
If parents are not sure of the health of children, take it immediately to the doctor to get certainty about the existence of child health problems. So, when the child complained of something in his body, parents can take him to the doctor that is open for practice in the morning after that child can still go back to school.
Working with the classroom teacher or other assistant in the school. Parents can ask for help the teacher or assistant to calm the children in ways like take him to the library, invite children to rest in a quiet moment, or in older children, teachers can discussproblems that are overwhelm the child.
4. Take time to discuss / talk with the children what makes children fearful, anxious or reluctant to go to school.
5. Remove the child gradually.
Parents should give children the opportunity to adjust to his new environment. In some schools, parents or caregivers are allowed in the classroom until 1-2 weeks or until the specified deadline the school. Remove the child gradually, for example in the first days, parents are in class and over time gradually shifted outside the classroom but still in reach of child's vision.
6. Consult on the psychologist / counselor if problems occur protracted.
If a school phobia in the long term, it indicates a psychological problem that needs to be handled by experts proportionally
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